How Can You Be Sure That Your Partner Is "The One"

A lot of people overthink things such as which ring to buy when going to a engagement rings UK store. What you really should be asking is whether you are ready to make a commitment. Before rushing to buy an engagement ring, you should weigh up every little detail about your relationship and be absolutely sure about your decision. Here’s how you can figure out whether your partner is marriage-worthy.

You Can Speak Your Mind

When you are with your partner, you should be able to say things without having to filter your words. Even if you are going to say something negative you need to be able to voice your darkest opinion to your partner. Of course, you will have disagreements but your partner should not react negatively to everything you have to say. You can learn open communication with your partner to make the relationship healthy.

Boundaries! What Boundaries? 

Comfort is very important for a lasting relationship. Your partner should make you feel accepted at your best and worst.  If your partner shames you for anything, then they are not the one for you.

They Bring Out The Best In You

Being in a relationship should be a positive experience. The world might make you feel that you are not good enough, but your partner should be able to pull you out of the rut and boost your confidence. Your partner should help you nurture and grow your personality instead of holding you back. A good relationship is one where you want to be a better person for your partner.

You Are Always In Touch

Everyone has a busy life in today’s world. However, this should never come in the way of your relationship. Your partner should be as willing as you to communicate with you through their day. Why not send them a quick text or phone call when you are on your lunch break to let them know what you are up to?

They Make The Mundane Fun

The daily grind of life can get very mundane. Meeting your partner should bring brightness to your life. It's important to have your own interests too but If you see that your partner is not interested in sharing activities with you, it might be a sign that they are not the one for you.

You Share The Same Interests

Opposites might attract, but it is essential to have shared interests as I said above.  If you both cannot enjoy doing the same things, then your relationship may not work out. Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule but this is something to think about.

Fights Are Always Forgiven

All couples fight over various things. A fight should never leave a permanent scar on your relationship. Your partner should not hold a grudge against you after a fight. If your partner forgets and forgives conflicts then that is a great sign that they are a keeper. The saying 'never go to bed on an argument' is so true for a healthy relationship.

You Both Want The Same Destination for Your Relationship

You might have been with your partner for years, but your partner still may not be the one for you if you both want different things from your relationship. Your partner should have the same relationship vision as you. You can talk to your partner to see if you both are on the same page regarding the relationship.

Do not jump the gun to buy engagement rings UK jewellers sell. Take your time to judge whether your partner indeed is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.

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  1. Love this post, I have thought a couple of people were 'the one' but I was very wrong!

  2. Such a great post, this is something as a parent we try to teach out children, and something that everyone needs to read x

  3. My husband and I were together for 4 years before we decided to get engaged, definitely not something I would jump into!

  4. I love this and you are totally right. Fights are always forgiven is a big one for me, there's no need to hoo a grudge.

  5. Lovely post! As corny as it sounds, I think when you meet the just know without any doubts or anything like that x

  6. Until recently I couldn't connect with any of this - but since meeting my new partner - who is all of the above - I totally agree :) Kaz