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What Are The Main Causes Of Depression In Young Adults?

We all feel low sometimes and if you live with a young adult, it can often feel as though their moods are taking over your home. The truth is, consistent, negative emotions are more than just your teen “feeling blue” or going through a “hormonal phase”, your teen could, in fact, be struggling with depression.

Depression makes it feel impossible for this dark mood to lift. Your teen might be expressing this mental health issue through all kinds of symptoms, including feelings of worthlessness and guilt, difficulty concentrating, physical discomfort, social withdrawal and even changes in their eating habits. Your teen might be experiencing a mixture of behavioural or emotional changes due to their depressive state, or they could be hiding it with other destructive behaviours such as drinking, drugs or even excessive gaming.



If you’re worried about your teen’s struggle with their mental health, Yes We Can Youth Clinics provides help for depression that may help them overcome this mood disorder, giving them the tools they need to improve their quality of life and live and function positively. In the meantime, understanding the main causes of depression in young adults can help you comprehend what they might be going through, and increase your ability to support them through this difficult period. While there is no black and white answer, there are numerous factors that could be at play. Read on to find out more.

Family difficulties

When their family is experiencing difficulties, such as their parents divorcing or separating, or a feud is threatening the harmony of the family home, it’s not uncommon for anxiety and depression to take hold.

The death of a loved one

A traumatic event such as the death of a loved one can have all kinds of consequences on the mental health of the young adults in your life. A sense of loss that is difficult to shake can lead to a change in behavioural patterns and negative thinking, which in turn can develop into depression.

Brain imbalances

Sometimes, the cause may be attributed to a physical cause. When the neurotransmitters in the brain are imbalanced or compromised, it can affect the nerve cells, which in turn can lead to depression. Chemical imbalances are associated with the following neurotransmitters: dopamine, serotonin, and norepinephrine.

Childhood trauma

Often, depression can have its roots all the way back to early childhood. Often caused by traumatic events such as physical, emotional, or sexual abuse. Living through these events can leave survivors more susceptible to depression.

Family history

Studies have shown that young adults with a family history of depression, for example in a parent or grandparent are much more likely to be susceptible to depression themselves.

Self-esteem issues

If your teen is in a constant battle with their self-esteem due to chronic bullying, peer pressure, obesity, or even problems with academia, then they’re more likely to develop certain personality traits such as being pessimistic, become overly dependent on others and overly self-critical, which in turn can develop into depression.

Final thoughts…

If you believe your teen is suffering from depression, it’s important that you support them and seek help as soon as possible. Also, check out this post on tips for teens struggling with mental health issues

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A Real Best Friend

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 (Photo credit: EuroMagic)

I have been wanting to get a dog for a long time. My husband and I now work from home, however, we have a flat and I would rather wait for the time in the future where we have a house with a garden, to let the dog out in an emergency. I have had two dogs in the past and I would love to get another one, one day I will.

We all know dogs are a mans best friend, they are so loving and affectionate in general, and incredibly loyal too. However, I didn't realise all the remarkable things they are capable of. 

These are some of the things they can do:-

Help those with Autism

Research has shown that they help reduce the stress of an autism sufferer, as well as helping them in social situations.

Help those with depression

Looking after a dog can provide health benefits for those with depression by providing routine, activity and exercise as well as companionship.

Help those with diabetes

With training, dogs can be used to detect low blood sugar in those with diabetes. They are also great at alerting others if an attack has occurred by barking and bringing attention to the situation.

Help those with epilepsy

It's amazing to think that dogs can detect seizures before they happen. It is still not known how they do it but researchers think they detect subtle changes in scent or human behaviour. 

Helping those with food allergies

Dogs can be trained to detect substances that you are allergic to, for example, peanuts.

As you can see, dogs are so much more than man's best friend, they can be a vital help to those in need.




Infographic courtesy of Bolt Burdon Kemp 

Do you have a dog? Have they ever helped you in need? Did you know some of the amazing things dogs can do?

* post in collaboration with Bolt Burdon Kemp

Depression and Suicide - Please Ask For Help

When someone you knows commits suicide you break your heart and something inside you is never the same again.

A close family member committed suicide when I was 18.  I remember coming home and my mum telling me. The hurt, the sadness, the anger, still seems fresh to the day. And the questions. What happened? How did they do it? Why?

They say depression is a selfish illness and in some ways, I have to agree but I can also see it from the other side too.

Speaking from the heart I wanted to shout from the rooftops why didn't you talk to me? Wasn't I good enough? Didn't I make you happy? I could have tried to help.

And in those moments of sheer sadness and depression that I have suffered too, I can empathise. People with depression can't shake off this feeling. They don't wake up tomorrow and all is better. They have this black cloud hanging over them all the time.


Do you feel alone?
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Those who attempt to and those that commit suicide feel like there is no way out. They don't think about their partners, their family. They just want the relief of never having to feel like this ever again.

If you know someone who suffers from depression it can by a joyless experience spending time with them but please do. This may sound like I'm being harsh but when they are wrapped up in their own little world it can often feel this way.

Be there for them, listen to them, get them to seek help. That's all you can do.

The Samaritans are there to listen when you feel you can't talk to anyone. They are nonjudgmental. You can ring them on 08457 90 90 90 but did you know you can also contact them in other ways including emailing them, writing to them, texting them or even visiting their offices in person? You can learn more about getting help with your depression with Thrive Talk as well.

On one last note, I wished you had come to me and talked and hugged me and kissed me. I wish those tablets weren't there. I wish you had thought about your family. I wish depression didn't exist. I love you and always will.

References
The Mental Health Foundation - Getting Help http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/help-information/getting-help/